What women really want

Hillary Clinton was asked why she stuck with Bill Clinton after his moral standing was found wanting and she said being with Bill was an endless conversation. Bill and Hillary are intellectually compatible, finding it easy to connect and have conversational outflow, but what Hillary meant was that Bill knows how to make spending time with her count. It starts there -- women are crazy about attention and a man who knows how to dish it out properly will always be a ladies’ man.

What women really want is attention

Ladies, correct me kindly if I'm being presumptuous in thinking that most of you would like some men looking in your direction a second, third or even fourth time! To a woman, it's a thing of exquisite beauty to have men gawk especially those not looking for a quick roll on the bed or in the hay. It makes them feel attractive and wanted. Learn to look at her in a way that suggests your eyes will never look that way at another woman because the best thing you can do for her is to make her believe she's the most beautiful woman in the world. And there's no way that's going to happen when you forget her birthday, and when you start attending to your phone while you're out on a date with her. 

It's the mandate of every man to master the game of surprises. If you're going to buy your wife a special gift or take your girlfriend to some cozy place only on her birthday, you're losing it. Engage that surprise gear the most when she least expects it. Although money is an important factor in relationships, financial brawn will always be outfoxed by a romantic brain. The "pomp and circumstance" that wealth creates to blow away girls like the super-rich Tom Buchanan blows away Daisy in The Great Gatsby cannot eclipse the magnetism of a man who knows how to give proper attention to women.