Adults must set worthy examples to the little ones |
She's a big, garrulous woman who will then come flying from her house and yank
the toys away from little Ali. She will sometimes pinch him while saying, "Maybe this will teach you to stop harassing my son." Ali never cries through his ordeal, which is quite odd for a child his age. Moreover this seems to drive Mark's mother madder that she will call out to Ali's mother chastisingly: "Why don't you discipline your son? I'm tired of him harassing my son!"
The boys will meanwhile watch out the drama of their mothers till it has played out. Consequently, Ali has taken after his quiet and collected mother. He never cries and never laughs. It's hard to tell when he's angry or happy. As for Mark, he cries as much and is as easily offended and quarrelsome as his mother. The boy even wags his little finger, copies some of his mother's cuss words and even spits at 'elders' because his mother won't touch him.
From all this I've learnt that kids can either be atrocious or gentle depending on what they hear and learn from the adults in their lives. The disarming innocence they are born which is quickly replaced with anarchic attitudes that if not tamed early explode in adult age. That's how we end up with terrorists. Thus adults must take keen interest in the behaviour of children and deliberately set examples that will help their children to grow into responsible people the world can be proud of.